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About Jackie St. Louis

Hello, and thank you for taking the time to learn more about me. I’m Jackie —a licensed therapist, systems thinker, writer, and founder of both Tender Tongues Counseling and D-Fine Concepts Consulting. I am also the creator of the Synergy Framework, a model that helps individuals and institutions transform culture, deepen relationships, and align with their purpose.

I hold a Doctor of Public Administration, a master’s degree in counseling, and a deep commitment to collective liberation and healing. My multicultural background and lived experience shape everything I do—from the clients I counsel, to the organizations I advise, to the stories I write. My work sits at the crossroads of mental health, equity, and authentic human connection.

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My consulting practice is where systems and souls meet. Through D-Fine Concepts, I support institutions seeking to lead with equity, transform culture, and work in deeper alignment with their mission. I’ve consulted with governments, nonprofits, private sector teams, colleges, and community-based organizations on everything from DEI strategy to culture-building to crisis response.

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My Synergy Framework addresses the intrapersonal, interpersonal, and institutional dynamics that influence culture and power. It offers a roadmap for change rooted in self-awareness, courageous conversation, and structural accountability. Clients trust me to hold space for honest dialogue, push for meaningful outcomes, and always center the humanity of those most impacted by the work.

I bring both the heart of a healer and the vision of a systems strategist.

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In this season of my life, I’m also writing more. I publish a Substack newsletter called "Tethered Together: Perspectives on the Human Experience" and I’m working on several book and screenplay projects that explore culture, mental health, masculinity, vulnerability, grief, and transformation. My writing aims to connect, provoke, and inspire—from lived truth, not performance.

If you’ve made it this far, thank you. I’d love to connect—whether you're seeking a therapist, a speaker, a collaborator, or a thought partner. I am here to do meaningful work with people and institutions ready to move toward healing, alignment, and justice.

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Check out my writing 

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With over 15 years of experience in behavioral health, I’ve supported individuals, couples, and families across a wide range of life challenges and transitions. I offer individual therapy, couples counseling, coaching, and healing work that centers compassion, accountability, empowerment and resilience. My areas of focus include trauma recovery, relationship dynamics, workplace-related stress and trauma, identity formation, depression, purpose and alignment, anxiety, burnout, and grief.

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I’m particularly adept at working with individuals navigating difficult work environments—whether related to discrimination, power imbalances, or misalignment with organizational culture. I also support clients who are seeking clarity in their relationships, reckoning with their past, or reimagining their future.

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My approach is relational, culturally attuned, and strength-based. I support people of color, LGBTQIA+ communities, and others often left at the margins—helping them reconnect to their worth, purpose, and agency. My clients often describe our work together as clarifying, empowering, and affirming.

Therapy with me is a space to slow down, to feel fully, and to come home to yourself. I believe in the power of honest reflection and intentional support. My clients often describe me as both grounding and catalytic. I don’t pretend to have all the answers—but I do ask the right questions, and I’m not afraid to sit with the hard stuff.

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Whether you're navigating a personal reckoning, recovering from trauma, reevaluating your purpose, or simply craving more wholeness in your life, therapy with me is a place to reclaim your agency and reconnect to what matters. We’ll work together to nurture your emotional resilience, deepen your self-trust, and chart a path forward that is aligned, liberating, and sustainable.

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You’ve made it this farm thank you—pause, breathe, and know that reaching out is a powerful act. I look forward to hearing from you.

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What people have said about their experience with counseling

“My relationship with Jackie has been a lifeline through the past year. I appreciate his consistency and the care he takes to truly understand my particular issues and concerns. He is encouraging and challenging, and I appreciate how thoughtful he was when including my partner in our sessions. His presence in my life has truly been a gift.” 

A – Marriage Therapy Client

Consulting Projects

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Pierce County – Hilltop Jobs (2018)

King County - Present 

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Community of Practice (2020-), Evaluation (2020), Commercial Affordability (2020- Presents)

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Raikes Foundation – Youth Homelessness (2020)

The Stability Network – Mental Health Initiative (2020- Present)

Mindful Philanthropy – Board of Advisors (2020- Present)

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Clark County Washington – Behavioral Health Consultant (2019- Present)

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Ballard Alliance – Racial Equity in Urban Place Management (2021 ); Conflict De-escalation (2021)

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Alliance for Pioneer Square - Racial Equity in Urban Place Management (2021)

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Tacoma Housing Authority – Arlington Drive Youth Campus (2018)

SoDo BIA - Racial Equity in Urban Place Management (2021)

King County Sheriff’s Office - Racial Equity in Urban Law Enforcement (2021)

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Washington State Bar Association (2021)

 Institutional Racism and Lawyer Responsibility 

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Organizational Anti-Racism Training(2021)

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International Downtown Association (2021)

Consulting Services Reviews

Jackie was instrumental in conducting a community outreach effort to solicit the voices and opinions of homeless young adults, their advocates and community and neighborhood representatives.  Jackie provided insights and perspectives as to the living experience of this population and how best to design a campus to support them in a journey to becoming successful young adults once they moved into Arlington.  Jackie worked to enlighten the staff working on this project with the challenges faced by the young adults.  This resulted in an increased sensitivity to programming, selection of a partner to provide services and training for staff who would be working on a day to day basis with this population.  He consistently brought awareness to social justice and equity issues and stressed the importance of paying attention to these matters in the selection of staff who would be working on the property on a day by day basis.  Jackie is always clear and direct in his communication, which is greatly appreciated.  He brought compassion and insights to every conversation and was brave in sharing his perspective, which may have been contrary to the perspective of others.

Cathy McCormick, Deputy Director Tacoma Housing Authority

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